Its not complicated :)

I have no questions
that i want life to answer
It doesn't bother me why;
people are a certain way
I judge some people
I love some people
I am a hypocrite in some situations;
I stand by my values in some.
I crib about some things
I love some things

I emulate some things about people
not coz i want to be like someone..
but I respect that trait
I want that trait.
I am ME; at times, different than many
at times ; similar to many maybe.
I believe I am unique very unique.
So is everybody.

Life is simple.
We have the power to complicate it.
I love complicating it at time.
I love adding drama at times.
But inside i know, its simple.
Its stupid.
Its just there.
And all life answers are objective;
Its either a yes or a no.

Saying all this is so simple.
I don't take all situations so positively.
But this is what is there inside me.
This is how i feel .
I react i dramatize.
But I know its superficial.
I am learning, I am smiling.
I am living.

Don't take life too seriously, you'll never get out of it alive. -- Elbert Hubbard

(am i taking it seriously?? )

What a bugger!!!

10 things that bug me:

- Sound of creaky chalk on the board
This bug is accompanying me since childhood. Some things never change *Sigh* (drama queen)

- anybody bragging incessantly
Could be about own posessions. About own (existing or non existing). Do i look like I care!!!.. It is a royal pain in the keeeeeeee. \

- Putting me down (my ego is bad)
This could make a place in the list "things that i hate to the core". Never do this to me. Its a direct ticket to "people to get back at". I will. Or i will sulk incessantly, that's bad too.

- "What did you eat today or What did Nishit eat today" .. coming from parents
Not being disrespectful. I understand they care. But i wouldn't be gng hungry everyday and neither would i keep Nishit hungry.

- the love handles (*Snigger*)
Love should be in the air not on ur waist. The sight or feel of it bugs me to no ends. I should do something about it

- Me saying "I should do somthing about it" and not doing anything ( 'it' can be anything)
Grrrr... This list should have started with this bugger. Gotta edit it. :P

- "you never call." / "you never call back.. " / "Dont u see ur fone"
Anybody saying this . I know i am at fault. I know i should improve (and i honetly think ia m trying to improve... but this is the max i can do.. Apologies) . But it totally gets to my head. Thats just how I am with the mobile since i started using it.

- Washing clothes
Drab. I have never washed clothes nor do i intend to. When i have to, i simply hate it. Even the smallest pice of cloth i dont wash. What were washing machines made for!!! huh

- Boring Poeple (as per my perspective)
A quote says "Some people have the power of speech but not the power of communication." I so agree. People can go on and on and i so loose track. My solcae at that time : my dreamland.

- Going to the petrol pump (silly!!!.. i know)
It can be a derivative of lazyness. Since i drive a 2 wheeler i have to have to have to go there. But i hate it hate it hate it. I delay till the last drop. Sometimes if i am lucky enough and the petrol decides to get over during weekends, I make my hubby do that. Brilliant.


What a bugger!!! I cant find a quote for this post!!! Thats so bugging :P

The reason for this random post though is that me and 2 of my friends decided to write a post on a common topic…

Just to see how similarly we are different…

After around 20 mails exchanged in office debating on the topic for the same, we zeroed down on this non-controversial, non-philosophical one!

Just in case u r interested, the links to the other 2 blogs are

conceptlife.blogspot.com

Nehamordia.blogspot.com

My New Family

Meet the Pillay's

Mr. Vishwanthan Pillay
He is one of the most handsome men at 60. Tall, lean. Yeah lean. He is so well built. Younger people would feel a complex. His eating habits , are those that people talk about in books. He follows them since ages.( Secret of his handsome looks)
His dedication in life is amazing. For him retirement did not mean retirement from work. It only meant retirement from one job. He works and he still earns. He stll enjoys. And i cant resist saying again, he is simply handsome.
He is The Liberal Man. Lives and let lives. No disticntion between son and daughter or bahu.
I called him up, "Dad, there is a scheme to study MBA while working"
He didnt ask what it would cost. He didnt question. He simply said "whatever it takes, we will give. You just study"
Love my new dad.

Mrs. Nita Pillay
She is enthusiasm personified. Nobody at any age can be as enthusiastic as her. Impossible. She lives life to the fullest. She is fun. If she is around with you, you cant have a dull time. On picnics or parties, she is the centre of attraction. She can sing dance , make people have fun with the games she plans. No young people can come close to her enthusiasm.
A perfectionist to the core. Which thing is at which place she can explain on the fone, and you will find it excatly at that place. I am learning from her.
Always active. From the time she wakes up she is upto something. She is good at everything she does. If Nita Pillay has taken up a task. Be rest assured, it will be completed to perfection.
Nita Pillay is the definiton of "SHopaholic". She simply loves shopping. She does not need a reason to shop. And her taste is brilliant, classy and mind blowing. How can i forget to mention, she is the best bargainer to walk on planet earth. If you wanna go shopping, catch hold of her. The chances of getting the best thing at the best price is 100%.
Love my new mom.


Nisha Pillay
A perfect gemini. A non stop chatter box.She can go and on with all the energy. A complete foody. She can be a walking yellow page for all the good eating out places.
Very individualistic. She will always do what is right to her . No pretentions. If she likes you, she will do anything and everything for you. If she does not, GOD BLESS YOU. :)
Like mother like daughter in quite a few ways. She is the junior shopaholic. She loves and lives life.
She likes gifting. If you are in her good books, be assured that you will get a gift when u meet her.
Absolutley in love with her brother. Even if i try , i would never be able to match up to that love.
Love my new friend.

Sounds mushy and maybe too much of praise. But no. Its just the plain truth.
For me, i couldnt have asked for a better family to get married into.
Everybody is tightly knit. Selfless love. And they love me back the same way.

When you look at your life, the greatest happinesses are family happinesses. ~Joyce Brothers